Someone in my Cultivating
Joy class this morning said, “You seem so calm considering you are about to
host your daughters wedding here.” Yes,
it is true that this will be the “Biggest Party that I have ever hosted” and it
is easy to worry about all the things that are not perfect in my quarter of a century old home.
My dear friend Peggy Hillman gave me great advice after our
Yoga Dance Class on Sunday. She said
every great event has three parts, the ANTICIPATION, the PARTICIPATION and The
REFLECTION. We have a choice on how we
view and experience each one.
I could very easily worry about the weather, the impending
cicadas, the once beautiful pink roses that the deer have eaten, and all of
these things that I have little to no control over. But today I choose to anticipate this joyful
occasion with great excitement and joy instead of fear and worry.
How often do we let fear and anxiety get in the way of a
joyful experience? My daughters often
remind me how high strung I can get when I get into perfectionism and overload
before entertaining. I’m sad to think
how many opportunities to enjoy the process and the planning have been
wasted. How the pursuit of perfection
creates an unattainable ideal and with it, associated stress and anxiety.
Just Four Days left and my son and daughter came in yesterday!! I know that Saturday will come
and go so fast so I want to acknowledge how grateful I am to have my family
home and a few friends to witness the beautiful union of Margo & Thomas as
well as our great big newly extended family.
My only wish is that every one of my family friends and neighbors could
be here, but please know that you are so in my heart.
Today, I choose joy and excitement.
Carpe Diem.
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